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Angel Ann, and Andrew

Posted on November 20, 2009 - Filed Under Artist Friends

Today I am thinking of two people, Ann Van Tassell, and Andrew van der Merwe. Ann is my friend, and the friend of many, who just passed away from a long, long struggle with breast cancer. Andrew is a lettering artist in South Africa. Both are calligraphers, both are people who strive to make the world a better place. What I am sharing here is a tribute to Ann done by Andrew.

Tribute-to-AnnI am overwhelmed by the beauty of Ann’s life, and the beauty of this tribute. I imagine Andrew out there on the sand, carving this name that means so much to so many of us. Ann came into my life at a pivotal stage for both of us, and we had a lovely series of exchanges. She is a person who leaves a huge hole, one that cannot be filled by anything but the memories she leaves for us, and for her family.

This is a time I am envious of everyone who is comfortable with the cycle of life. I am not one of those people. It makes me sad and angry that it does not make sense. I have another friend who is dealing with ovarian cancer, who is newly married and 29 years old. Her name is Deandra, and she is a beautiful young woman who should not be dealing with cancer. Cancer just plain sucks.

Today I will light a candle for Ann, and again on her birthday, and one for Deandra. And I will think of Andrew and his writing on the beautiful beaches, that beautiful name.

Comments

5 Responses to “Angel Ann, and Andrew”

  1. Mabel Dean on November 20th, 2009 3:38 pm

    Dearest Jill – I send you warm hugs to help ease your loss. &drew’s tribute to Ann is beautiful. Life on earth is so ephemeral – and it is “wonder-full” that we do not know just how it manifests when we leave this planet and move on..to the next adventure.
    love from your friend, maybelle

  2. Jane Farr on November 20th, 2009 5:07 pm

    Although I never met Ann except via email and exchanges, I grieve the loss of her. I’ve missed her presence on Cyberscribes this past year. Last night I pulled out some of my favorite exchange pieces from The Wild Woman, and I will be lighting a candle on her birthday. I always enjoy seeing Andrew’s Beachscriber work, but last night when I saw this image on the graphics board, I really had an emotional and physical response to it. I think many people would hire him to do this in memory of a loved one. There is healing is seeing a cherished name carved into the sand.

  3. Deedee Hampton on November 21st, 2009 1:19 pm

    What a beautiful tribute!!! I too struggle with the sheer pain of losing a loved one to death…I spent Tuesday with a friend who has ovarian cancer and who has lost 2 sisters & a mother to various types of cancer…it seems so unfair!!

  4. Gabriela on November 24th, 2009 8:28 am

    Hello from Toronto,

    Love your work and blog!

    ~ Gabriela ~

  5. Kim Rae Nugent on November 28th, 2009 11:46 pm

    What a beautiful tribute! The impermanence of the writing in the sand is a lovely metaphor for life. My sympathy on your loss.
    Hugs,
    Kim

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